Dont stress yourself doing things that other people think that you need to do them, only if you want to.
Dont go to graduate school just because everyone is telling you so, because your cousins all did.
Dont take a job if you think that its not suitable for you, that its a burden on you.
Take your time, and follow what you think is right. Sometimes we have to do something that is outside our comfort zone, however if it feel toxic, go back, think again, and plan your way.
If it didn’t work, try again, again and again until you find what you think suites you.